二月十三日 婚姻的神話

很多即將結婚的男女都有一個婚姻的神話:以為結婚之後,配偶會為你作出改變;可是十居其九,並非如此。婚前的她是一個怎樣的人,婚後的她也不會有多大的改變。人的性格是經年累月而形成,不是一下子就能更改脾性和生活習慣。

請你想一想,她哪樣的個性吸引你的愛,為何婚後卻要她有所改變來遷就你呢?

Billy Joel 有一首歌,道出了真愛的心聲:
Just the way you are

Don’t go changing, to try and please me
You never let me down before
Don’t imagine you’re too familiar
And I don’t see you anymore
I wouldn’t leave you in times of trouble
We never could have come this far
I took the good times, I’ll take the bad times
I’ll take you just the way you are

Don’t go trying some new fashion
Don’t change the color of your hair
You always have my unspoken passion
Although I might not seem to care

I don’t want clever conversation
I never want to work that hard
I just want someone that I can talk to
I want you just the way you are.

I need to know that you will always be
The same old someone that I knew
What will it take till you believe in me
The way that I believe in you.

I said I love you and that’s forever
And this I promise from the heart
I could not love you any better
I love you just the way you are.

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